There are two ways to solve the problem that your parents can't accept your marriage, both include to speak with your parents, but one option is that you travel and speak with them in Japan, and the other is that they travel and speak with them in U.S. The first option is go to Japan and speak with your parents personally. Travel to Japan will probably help to reduce the tension between you and them. You can explain to them your situation with your fiancé and how you feel about him. If you give to them good reasons and time to accept your decision, maybe they will accept your choice. A good question could be if you have the disposition to do what you want, without their approval. The other option is invite them to the U.S. and speak with them here. This way they can meet your fiancé and his family, get to know the environment around you, and understand how you live. If you show them all the reasons why you fall in love with Jim, maybe they will accept him. Again, the most important question is if you will marry him without their approval. In the end, it doesn't matter whether you're here or there, what matters is that you need to speak with your parents and try to convince them to accept your decision.
Several ways to deal with the problem of parents don’t approve your partner include taking your partner to visit Japan and teaching the Japanese language to your partner. The first idea is to impress your parents by taking your partner to visit Japan. This idea is your benefits because you can follow your parents to go back to your country, and also you can spend time with your boyfriend. Then, let’s your boyfriend learn Japanese cultures. The parents might look forward to seeing his attempt. Teaching Japanese language to your boyfriend is another way to deal with the problem. It shows how much your boyfriend tries to impress your parents. If he speaks Japanese, It might open up their minds to approve himself.
There are two ways to deal with the problem of your roommate include spending more time with Fred and going trip to somewhere. There are many ways to spend more time with your roommate. Eating breakfast together, playing video games together, or working out in the gym together etc. The purpose being together is in order to talking much more than before. If so, you can ask smoothly what is the matter with him. After that, how about suggest him going trip to somewhere for coming Thanksgiving vacation. He may have some problem in his family or worry about uncertain his future. He would talk about his problem during the trip, and you can give some advises to him. In addision, that trip could be good chance to get rid of stress both of you guys.
There are two way to solve this problem of your parent do not accept your American boyfriend, you have talk to your parent and take him to Japan. First. You have to talk to your parent and tell them the true about the love you are feeling for him, also you tell them his parent love to have a Japanese daughter in law. Next> You and your boyfriend take a trip to Japan to meet your parent, so your parent can see how is your boyfriend.
Two ways to deal with parents’ opposition to your transnational marriage include finding out the motive of your parents’ opposition, and sharing the experiences of Jim and you with your parents.
The priority solution is to find out the motive of your parents’ opposition. Motive determines what are people going to do. Therefore, if you want to change your parents’ idea, the prior is to find out their motive. Your parents hope you married with a Japanese, but not an American. This is not their motive, but one of the causes that support their motive. The normal motives are that they hope you would live close to them, they are worried about different lifestyles and values, or they already have a desirable guy. I believe if the motive is identified, you will know how to cope with. For example, if they want you to live close to them, you could consider to living with Jim in Japan, or arrange your parents to move to USA.
Another solution is to share the experiences of Jim and you with your parents. Every child should have a conviction that all parents will do the things that they think the things are good for their children. If your parents can ensure you are really happy, they don’t mind you are married with a toy or a pet. Thus, sharing your happiness and making your parents feel your happiness that can eliminate their concerns and support your decision.
There are two ways to solve this problem between your parents and Jim that they don't accept you in relationship with non Japanese speaker by teaching him Japanese and creating a warm family environment. The first solution that help your parents to accept Jim is teaching Jim Japanese. You need to teach him Japanese so he can talk with your parent. Your parents can't speak English like you. However, if Jim can speak Japanese to you parents, they might give him a chance to be their son in law. They have kept in mind that Jim can't speak Japanese but their thought are different from now on. They will be more open mind about foreign people and easily accept Jim as a member of your family. The second solution that help your parents to accept is creating a warm family environment. Your parents haven't met him yet so they don't know how he is. Parents are always judge by looking at the picture or the way he talks. Therefore, take him to Japan to meet your parents and have family dinner together. They will have a chance to meet each other in person than talk on the phone. You should introduce Jim to your parents and how your guys met. Tell your parents about his job and his personality. Japanese people always spotlight on a man that they have ability to cook or not. It's good time to yourself proud about Jim in front of your parents. Tell them that Jim can cook and he cooks really good food for you so they don't have to worry about that.
There are two solutions to deal with the problem of your parents can't accept that you would marry with someone who isn't Japanese include go back to your country and talk with your parents about the situation, and bring him to Japan to meet your parents.
The first solution that your parents can accept your fiance is to go back to your country and talk with them about the situation. This is an excellent solution for your parents to accept your marriage because your parents see that they are important to you, so much that you went to your city to talk to them. Therefore your parent will appreciate the idea that you talk with them before you get married. Also, when you be in Japan, you can ask your parents if they want to go back to USA with you and meet your fiance. If your parents don't want to go with you and meet Jim, your ready for the next solution.
The second and the most important solution that your parents can accept your fiance is to bring him to Japan. At first glance, your parents are going to be surprised that he's going to Japan with you. Then, Jim can talk with your parents face to face and propose you. I know that you parents are going to change their minds with this second solution because the parents always want the best for their daughters, so if Jim talk with them in a good way, your parents are going to be peaceful that your future husband left everything to go visit your parents and convince them that he will be an excellent husband.
There are two ways to solve the problem that your parents can't accept your marriage, both include to speak with your parents, but one option is that you travel and speak with them in Japan, and the other is that they travel and speak with them in U.S.
ReplyDeleteThe first option is go to Japan and speak with your parents personally. Travel to Japan will probably help to reduce the tension between you and them. You can explain to them your situation with your fiancé and how you feel about him. If you give to them good reasons and time to accept your decision, maybe they will accept your choice. A good question could be if you have the disposition to do what you want, without their approval.
The other option is invite them to the U.S. and speak with them here. This way they can meet your fiancé and his family, get to know the environment around you, and understand how you live. If you show them all the reasons why you fall in love with Jim, maybe they will accept him. Again, the most important question is if you will marry him without their approval.
In the end, it doesn't matter whether you're here or there, what matters is that you need to speak with your parents and try to convince them to accept your decision.
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DeleteSeveral ways to deal with the problem of parents don’t approve your partner include taking your partner to visit Japan and teaching the Japanese language to your partner.
ReplyDeleteThe first idea is to impress your parents by taking your partner to visit Japan. This idea is your benefits because you can follow your parents to go back to your country, and also you can spend time with your boyfriend. Then, let’s your boyfriend learn Japanese cultures. The parents might look forward to seeing his attempt. Teaching Japanese language to your boyfriend is another way to deal with the problem. It shows how much your boyfriend tries to impress your parents. If he speaks Japanese, It might open up their minds to approve himself.
There are two ways to deal with the problem of your roommate include spending more time with Fred and going trip to somewhere.
ReplyDeleteThere are many ways to spend more time with your roommate. Eating breakfast together, playing video games together, or working out in the gym together etc. The purpose being together is in order to talking much more than before. If so, you can ask smoothly what is the matter with him. After that, how about suggest him going trip to somewhere for coming Thanksgiving vacation. He may have some problem in his family or worry about uncertain his future. He would talk about his problem during the trip, and you can give some advises to him. In addision, that trip could be good chance to get rid of stress both of you guys.
There are two way to solve this problem of your parent do not accept your American boyfriend, you have talk to your parent and take him to Japan.
ReplyDeleteFirst. You have to talk to your parent and tell them the true about the love you are feeling for him, also you tell them his parent love to have a Japanese daughter in law.
Next> You and your boyfriend take a trip to Japan to meet your parent, so your parent can see how is your boyfriend.
Two ways to deal with parents’ opposition to your transnational marriage include finding out the motive of your parents’ opposition, and sharing the experiences of Jim and you with your parents.
ReplyDeleteThe priority solution is to find out the motive of your parents’ opposition. Motive determines what are people going to do. Therefore, if you want to change your parents’ idea, the prior is to find out their motive. Your parents hope you married with a Japanese, but not an American. This is not their motive, but one of the causes that support their motive. The normal motives are that they hope you would live close to them, they are worried about different lifestyles and values, or they already have a desirable guy. I believe if the motive is identified, you will know how to cope with. For example, if they want you to live close to them, you could consider to living with Jim in Japan, or arrange your parents to move to USA.
Another solution is to share the experiences of Jim and you with your parents. Every child should have a conviction that all parents will do the things that they think the things are good for their children. If your parents can ensure you are really happy, they don’t mind you are married with a toy or a pet. Thus, sharing your happiness and making your parents feel your happiness that can eliminate their concerns and support your decision.
There are two ways to solve this problem between your parents and Jim that they don't accept you in relationship with non Japanese speaker by teaching him Japanese and creating a warm family environment.
ReplyDeleteThe first solution that help your parents to accept Jim is teaching Jim Japanese. You need to teach him Japanese so he can talk with your parent. Your parents can't speak English like you. However, if Jim can speak Japanese to you parents, they might give him a chance to be their son in law. They have kept in mind that Jim can't speak Japanese but their thought are different from now on. They will be more open mind about foreign people and easily accept Jim as a member of your family.
The second solution that help your parents to accept is creating a warm family environment. Your parents haven't met him yet so they don't know how he is. Parents are always judge by looking at the picture or the way he talks. Therefore, take him to Japan to meet your parents and have family dinner together. They will have a chance to meet each other in person than talk on the phone. You should introduce Jim to your parents and how your guys met. Tell your parents about his job and his personality. Japanese people always spotlight on a man that they have ability to cook or not. It's good time to yourself proud about Jim in front of your parents. Tell them that Jim can cook and he cooks really good food for you so they don't have to worry about that.
There are two solutions to deal with the problem of your parents can't accept that you would marry with someone who isn't Japanese include go back to your country and talk with your parents about the situation, and bring him to Japan to meet your parents.
ReplyDeleteThe first solution that your parents can accept your fiance is to go back to your country and talk with them about the situation. This is an excellent solution for your parents to accept your marriage because your parents see that they are important to you, so much that you went to your city to talk to them. Therefore your parent will appreciate the idea that you talk with them before you get married. Also, when you be in Japan, you can ask your parents if they want to go back to USA with you and meet your fiance. If your parents don't want to go with you and meet Jim, your ready for the next solution.
The second and the most important solution that your parents can accept your fiance is to bring him to Japan. At first glance, your parents are going to be surprised that he's going to Japan with you. Then, Jim can talk with your parents face to face and propose you. I know that you parents are going to change their minds with this second solution because the parents always want the best for their daughters, so if Jim talk with them in a good way, your parents are going to be peaceful that your future husband left everything to go visit your parents and convince them that he will be an excellent husband.